@garyd9 i got no clue how the firmware works, but when i remove the hex it only flashes 2 times when i turn on the printer and when i include it i get 3 flashes because of my config. its wierd and i wont question it

are you using a duet board with your smart effector ?
dropping the StrainEffector-v2.01.hex into my duet helped me to get the sensivity saved
https://github.com/Duet3D/SmartEffectorFirmware/releases/tag/2.01

Thank you for everyone's help i really appreciate it !
After installing a new smart effector it seems to work !

@dc42 after uploading .hex to the printer it saves my sensitivity
@garyd9 that was the last puzzle piece i completely misunderstood the instructions given

To program the sensor, send command M672 S105:aaa:bbb replacing aaa by the desired sensitivity and bbb by 255 - aaa.

its says pcb Revision 2.0 CERL OHL 1.2 on it
and M672 spits out

Error: M672: No program bytes provided

setting the sensitivity just doesn't work its suppose to blink 3 times when changed but does not

example
M672 S105:25:255

i found the firmware for it but im struggling to find out how to use Atmel Studio 7 to compile it or upload it

https://github.com/Duet3D/SmartEffectorFirmware

@engikeneer but M561 disables any existing bed compensation or not?
EDIT: well i tried and didn't make a difference

@Phaedrux i found my biggest mistake so far, its silly

M665 R190 L440.35 B190 H415                           ; Set delta radius, diagonal rod length, printable radius and homed height

R is supposed to be R230.6.
and i was running M561 - g29 s2 - g29 - g32 but i guess im suppose to do g32 - g29 so i added g29 on the end of my bed.g for now

now im facing this issue that the probe doesn't trigger at some point and runs into the bed but not right away like halve way through probing

21.3.2021, 22:02:40	Error: Z probe was not triggered during probing move   while g29
21.3.2021, 21:58:29	Z probe trigger height set to 0.018 mm                  G30 S-3 included in bed.g
21.3.2021, 21:58:28	G32
Calibrated 8 factors using 16 points, (mean, deviation) before (-0.643, 0.353) after (-0.000, 0.037)
Auto calibration successful, deviation 0.037mm

@Lihyon said in delta smart effector hightmap mess:

it fails to upload the firmware files
Edit: i managed to install it

the results aren't much different

Number of points: 277
Probing radius: 185 mm
Probe area: 1075.2 cm²
Maximum deviations: -0.870 / 15.173 mm
Mean error: 7.258 mm
RMS error: 4.668 mm

it fails to upload the firmware files
Edit: i managed to install it

im going to make the firmware update now.
The rods i got are made by Haydn Huntley's and labeled each 440.35 one of them is 440.34

i tried a couple different bed.g files. My understanding was that the bed.g isn't used for g29 which is run before delta calibration G32 but for all i know this might be totally wrong.
On the side i ordered another smart effector.

M561                    ; clear any bed transform

; If the printer hasn't been homed, home it
if !move.axes[0].homed || !move.axes[1].homed || !move.axes[2].homed
  G28

; Probe the bed and do auto calibration
G1 X0 Y0 Z10 F10000        ; go to just above the first probe point
while true
  if iterations = 5
    abort "too many auto calibration attempts"
  G30 P0 X0.00 Y150.00 Z-99999 H0
  if result != 0
      continue
  G30 P1 X96.42 Y114.91 Z-99999 H0
  if result != 0
      continue
  G30 P2 X147.72 Y26.05 Z-99999 H0
  if result != 0
      continue
  G30 P3 X129.90 Y-75.00 Z-99999 H0
  if result != 0
      continue
  G30 P4 X51.30 Y-140.95 Z-99999 H0
  if result != 0
      continue
  G30 P5 X-51.30 Y-140.95 Z-99999 H0
  if result != 0
      continue
  G30 P6 X-129.90 Y-75.00 Z-99999 H0
  if result != 0
      continue
  G30 P7 X-147.72 Y26.05 Z-99999 H0
  if result != 0
      continue
  G30 P8 X-96.42 Y114.91 Z-99999 H0
  if result != 0
      continue
  G30 P9 X0.00 Y75.00 Z-99999 H0
  if result != 0
      continue
  G30 P10 X64.95 Y37.50 Z-99999 H0
  if result != 0
      continue
  G30 P11 X64.95 Y-37.50 Z-99999 H0
  if result != 0
      continue
  G30 P12 X0.00 Y-75.00 Z-99999 H0
  if result != 0
      continue
  G30 P13 X-64.95 Y-37.50 Z-99999 H0
  if result != 0
      continue
  G30 P14 X-64.95 Y37.50 Z-99999 H0
  if result != 0
      continue
  G30 P15 X0 Y0 Z-99999 S8
  if result != 0
      continue

  if move.calibration.final.deviation <= 0.07
    break
  echo "Repeating calibration because deviation is too high (" ^ move.calibration.final.deviation ^ "mm)"
; end loop
echo "Auto calibration successful, deviation", move.calibration.final.deviation ^ "mm"

G30 S-3
G1 Z50

; Probe the bed at 6 peripheral and 3 halfway points, and perform 6-factor auto compensation
; Before running this, you should have set up your Z-probe trigger height to suit your build, in the G31 command in config.g.
; bed.g file for RepRapFirmware, generated by Escher3D calculator
; 16 points, 6 factors, probing radius: 170, probe offset (0, 0)
; Auto calibration routine for large delta printer
;M561                    ; clear any bed transform

; If the printer hasn't been homed, home it
G28

; Probe the bed and do auto calibration
G1 X0 Y0 Z10 F10000        ; go to just above the first probe point
G30 P0 X0.00 Y190.00 Z-99999 H0
G30 P1 X122.13 Y145.55 Z-99999 H0
G30 P2 X187.11 Y32.99 Z-99999 H0
G30 P3 X164.54 Y-95.00 Z-99999 H0
G30 P4 X64.98 Y-178.54 Z-99999 H0
G30 P5 X-64.98 Y-178.54 Z-99999 H0
G30 P6 X-164.54 Y-95.00 Z-99999 H0
G30 P7 X-187.11 Y32.99 Z-99999 H0
G30 P8 X-122.13 Y145.55 Z-99999 H0
G30 P9 X0.00 Y95.00 Z-99999 H0
G30 P10 X82.27 Y47.50 Z-99999 H0
G30 P11 X82.27 Y-47.50 Z-99999 H0
G30 P12 X0.00 Y-95.00 Z-99999 H0
G30 P13 X-82.27 Y-47.50 Z-99999 H0
G30 P14 X-82.27 Y47.50 Z-99999 H0
G30 P15 X0 Y0 Z-99999 S7

G1 Z50

M561 ; clear any bed transform
G28  ; home all towers
; Probe the bed at 10 peripheral and 6 halfway points, and perform 6-factor auto compensation
; Before running this, you should have set up your Z-probe trigger height to suit your build, in the G31 command in config.g.
G30 P0 X0 Y184.9 H0 Z-99999
G30 P1 X108.68 Y149.59 H0 Z-99999
G30 P2 X175.85 Y57.14 H0 Z-99999
G30 P3 X175.85 Y-57.14 H0 Z-99999
G30 P4 X108.68 Y-149.59 H0 Z-99999
G30 P5 X0 Y-184.9 H0 Z-99999
G30 P6 X-108.68 Y-149.59 H0 Z-99999
G30 P7 X-175.85 Y-57.14 H0 Z-99999
G30 P8 X-175.85 Y57.14 H0 Z-99999
G30 P9 X-108.68 Y149.59 H0 Z-99999
G30 P10 X0 Y92.4 H0 Z-99999
G30 P11 X80.02 Y46.2 H0 Z-99999
G30 P12 X80.02 Y-46.2 H0 Z-99999
G30 P13 X0 Y-92.4 H0 Z-99999
G30 P14 X-80.02 Y-46.2 H0 Z-99999
G30 P15 X-80.02 Y46.2 H0 Z-99999
G30 P16 X0 Y0 H0 Z-99999 S6